Just cant live a lie!

For the past 2 years my life is nothing but a lie, a sophisticated lie i weaved so well and got caught up in it... I know i probably have been labeled as an excessively chronic pathological liar...But this is not a joke. It took me a long time to realize that maybe i have a problem, in the processing of hurting lots of people. I've paid my price.My marriage fell apart and i wont be able to see my son grow as much as i wanted to. I have left behind girls that are heart broken and resentful.It's more than just my life that i've ruined...It all started as a small lie, like i would tell a girl i met at the bar that i'm single so that i could have sex with her, while my wife was pregnant.There was also small lies that i made up for my nonexsist army life and other experience that i made up..I had seen those lies made me more attractive and got me more sex and i guess i got addicted to it since then. I kept telling myself they were the one time off thing and would never happen again...My marriage was on rocks and I took a job as strength coach in China to get away. My lying continued and got even worse there. In there i was a free man again, well almost if not for the fact that legally i was still married. I took off the wedding band and went single.I've weaved incredible webs of lies and created many characters where i had those whole different lives and they believed me.It gave me the highs i dont why.But everytime a girl found out which they always did,i saw in their eyes the shock and the disgust like i just turned an horrible animal overnight, i felt the guilt...and in the back of my mind i alway felt that little shadowy guit torwards my wife and our baby boy i left behind to persue a new bachelor life which was a lie i later realized.I'm not a bad person but i have lived a lie.Before i knew it, my lying had went from complusive to habitual cause everytime a lie is out i had to make up more to back up that one.I have fooled them and i have fooled even myself.

I'm seeing a therapist now and thought i would use this as a supplement step to recovery.It is pretty much my pethetic life in a nut shell that you've read...If you are gonna tell me to **** off then please dont even bother replying...I've got enough of that. I'm not coming here to ask any mercy nor judgement.

Thanks,

Greg

It's okay buddy. I hope the sessions pay off and your feeling better but I think your on the wrong site... :musicboohoo.gif:

I have moved this thread into the Whatever forums Brother Charger... as I think we might need to assist the ailing Greg Alman in restoring his possibly slandered reputation. Apparently this is his wife or friend of the wife. Google the name.

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Hi there, My name is Greg Almon and i have a confession to make.
I was a coach to the chinese speed skating team. Many would say i'm a shameless lying bastard and i admit here that i indeed am. Now that i finally got my fat white ass out of China, looking back on the days, besides being a sex addict and the fact that i couldnt keep my dick in my pants, i was amazed and amused by the extent of lies i told to get laid. I'm not full of myself and i know that a guy like me wouldnt get much chances but i have this gift that i could weave a lie so well that i fooled them all and got what i wanted. See, i have this psycological problem that everytime i tried to pick up a girl i lied, but i'm done with pretending cause even a man like me needed a break of truth time. Plus, i figured many other jerks out there can benefit from my techqiues so without further ados, here's some of the favourite lies i told.

Lie No.1: I was an army pilot and based all across the world where my legendary heroic stories took place.

Lie No.2: I was originally an Argentinan and had lived there till i was 9, the same year they took my dad away and killed him for against the government.My mom sent me away to live with my aunt in Canada which broke the little heart of mine and i later blame the traumatic childhood experience for being the looser i have been.

Lie No.3: This is the one many loathed. I played all single(of course i didnt wear the wedding band). Since i figured my wife was back in Calgary,Canada and busy feeding my new born child, it woundnt harm to lie a little to get myself some fun. But guess what, i couldnt stop there and it only got worse.

Lie No.4: I once told a girl that my brother got hit by a car so as to get away and take a break.

Lie No.5: I once told a virgin (who i dated and really wanted to ****) that i loved her, but she didnt put out,very much to my disappoint.

Lie No.6: You wonder how i got away? To pick up a girl applying the above lie was easy but it's how to get away that racked my brain, especially when i didnt want to bother with the breaking up. The one worked out best was that my visa was expired and that i had to leave the country. There was once i didnt even bother with that and i just disappeared magically, stop calling, dont answer the phone, acting like a complete jerk and the girl will break up with you.

Lie No.7: In a few cases where they did find out,i told them that i had felt extremely guilty and tortured, well like they were the first one i checked on my wife with, but of course i sure made them felt that way. The first one was a little hard and i had felt guilty, but after that, it got easier each time and my concience wasnt troubled at all.

There are also little lies that i told to back up the big ones but i wont bother you here with them. See, who said married man cant have fun? As long as you know how to lie like me.

Greg

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I'm thinking she is VERY, VERY mad... as his name is appearing several places... like:

HERE

and

HERE

And I thought my ex was a hag...

Not a problem there brother Bluetiereign. I'm a little confused though as to which Greg Almon this is all about since (The Allmon Brothers Band) Gregg Allmon is spelled with two g's...and two l's. Something I think a wife would know. :ermm:

It would be --> This Guy <-- that also appears --> Here <--

I mean this is a one person rampage ALL OVER the internet... just Google the guy. It's unreal. Of course, it could be a publicity stunt by him. In the event that is what pans out... we will move the thread back.

Oops sorry. When I searched, something about Gregg Allmon came up so I mistook it. I see now. Man, someone really dislikes this guy...

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And I thought my ex was a hag...

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I dunno duder. The more I read about this guy the more I think he's a dirty scoundrel...you know, if its true and all. I mean who would go to such great length to post this sort of thing and for what purpose? Well with my opinion stated I have to get back to filling out my application for a coaching position. The only draw back is I have to fly to China... :smug:

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Originally Posted by Charger

I dunno duder. The more I read about this guy the more I think he's a dirty scoundrel...you know, if its true and all. I mean who would go to such great length to post this sort of thing and for what purpose? Well with my opinion stated I have to get back to filling out my application for a coaching position. The only draw back is I have to fly to China... :smug:

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